Friday Sharing w/You

Friday, December 7

Last Friday posting I asked you to block Dec 2.  It is time to look back into your journal of the last 11 months if you have one, if not try to reflect what you have experienced and learned. I believe we all have issues in the last 11 months and  you might have some Fear entering 2013, or you are Self-absorbed or Your mind is numbing denial of what had happened in the last 11 months. It is okay that if you look back into the last 11 months and realized that you are half-crazy like me, jobless and traveling. It is also okay that if you know that you are a bit anxiety, depression, obsessive-compulsiveness, eating disorder or putting a bit of weight like me. The only thing that separates a successful person and an unsuccessful one is that they know that they have  a bit of anxiety,depression, obsessive-compulsiveness and eating disorder and they are always ahead  of many people because of self-awareness and insight of themselves.

One question that we must ask at this time of the year is - have we learned a new skill?   I am not looking at performance, is given. If your answer is “NO” to a new skill you completely wasted a year.  But for 2013, I hope you can learn this skill “EARN THE OPPORTUNITY TO BE HEARD.”   Three to five years from now you will be disappointed if you continue ducking. So if you haven’t learn this skill, hopefully you pracitce it in 2013 to earn the opportunity to he heard.  Sail away from safe harbor, catch the wind in your sails, be half-crazy like me, be jobless and travel a  bit to explore, to discover, to dream big.  

Keep the below 3 statements by your side

Don’t wish it was easier, wish you were better.
Don’t wish for less problems, wish for more Skills.
Don’t wish for less challenges, wish for more wisdom.
- by Jim Rohn, Speaker, Author, Philosopher.

By the way Dec 2 is my birthday, the good thing is that I have many birthdays and this year is my 56. The more birthdays you have the better you are.  & This year Dec 2, is also my 30 Wedding Anniversaries




Interestingly, I brought my own birthday cakes. It was a yummy cakes that I believe you can’t find it in Singapore, only in Brussels, Belgium.

Since is my birthday week, I would like to share something interesting about my family rituals with you because I always believe I have the wisdom to share who I am powerfully and courageously. 

I have only 2 rituals for getting things completed in ways that leave lots of room for the new to arrive. One is on Dec 2, My Birthday & Wedding Anniversary that fall on the same day. And the other one is the eve of Chinese New year.  Why I practice these 2 rituals in my family.  It is a time for our committed to complete all conversations.  Yes, we do have weekly dinner together but the annual ritual allows us to be accountable to each other. Why my family need to complete our communication during the ritual?  It is important because we believe there is a big difference between ending and being complete. Things end and we can often find ourselves incomplete. These incompletions build and can leave us with many hiccups. We want trust that allows each of us to rest in clarity and completion, that why I always insist on these 2 rituals in my family. We complete even if we don’t know exactly how that is why I am always Happy & Grateful. 

My Birthday, Anniversary and holiday have all come together.  Time and things changed after Dec 2.  The leaves have fallen.  The snow fallen.  I am grateful of the last 11 months and my family love I hold, especially this long holiday together.  And I will also not forget those favours from you, my friends who assist me all the time. We are now in Brussels, Belgium with clear night skies moments to experience.  I am happy & grateful to have so many birthdays (56) and the more birthdays I have the better I will be, happy & grateful with my family always beside me.

We have left Brussels and now in Amsterdam (Dec 3)… to continue our family holiday.

What really keeps us up at night?
It’s not the mistakes that people made in the workplace but the non-compliant employee that keep you up at night. (Those powerless one) When the powerless is not empower to change the things they know are wrong …………bad things can happen.

The countdown to X’mas is only 18 days left,  shop till you drop ( We are doing it now in Europe) A study show that 97% of people buying decisions are made on an emotional basis then later justified by logic. Because emotion stimulates the mind up to 3,000 times faster than rational thought processes. That why we have  storeroom in HDB apartment & wardrobe to keep our emotion intact.


In this FSY’s Page, I write and share things that matter to me. I understand that you have your own opinions, views, & thoughts. Please keep it to yourself because there is no right or wrong answers. Nothing is true or untrue, most facts and data can be twisted to your favour. I believe it is just a passing cloud & when the rain stop sunshine will appear..fsy

I also understand that everyone’s attention span is very short and if you read till here, I would like to say thank you for staying with me till the end. It might be rubbishes to some people but I do know that there are some gems hidden to be picked in all rubbishes… Hope you have pick one or 2 gems?

  If you keep Reading, I will keep Sharing

 The run chart is  promising, I will keep sharing

 Friday, See You here… Every Friday





Interestingly someone say “ Teamwork means never having to take all the blame.”

Don’t wish it was easier, wish you were better
Don’t wish for less problems, wish for more Skills
Don’t wish for less challenges, wish for more wisdom
- by Jim Rohn, Speaker, Author, Philosopher.

No one has had more books devoted than Abraham Lincoln, the 16th President of US. (Posted on Nov 19, 2012) Please go ahead and guess how many books? Answer: There are over 15,000 books about Lincoln in print.

Everyone have luck – Bad or Good

In Las Vegas there is no loser, only winners and donations

Life is not about big fish eat small fish or big fish that swims in small pond or small fish that swims in the ocean. Big or small fishes they all are still fish.

The late Stephen R.Covey 7 habits principle stated “Begin with the end in mind” The now FSYQualipreneur added onto this principle ”Begin with the Beginning after the end is the mind.”

97% of people buying decisions are made on an emotional basis then later justified by logic. Because emotion stimulates the mind up to 3,000 times faster than rational thought processes.

Hone your skills not from the internet but from the area of your interest

Writing on the wall: “A life time of training for just 10 second” …Jesse Owens, the American track star in 1930s

If today, Chairman Mao Zedong is still alive in China. What happen to China?

‘Everything is possible’ is this a good value or.. ? Share your thought with me…

Someone say – This isn’t a good value because everyone thinks it’s possible to do your utmost to eliminate what you don’t want or get what you want

If communication [leadership] is to change behavior, it must be grounded in the desires and interest of the receivers …Artistotle

Hard Gifts are often used to grease the wheels of Guanxi, the Chinese term for relationships that help win jobs and promotions.

Soft Gifts are feedback, You accept all Feedback unconditionally, Massage it & make Choices and change your behavior according to the results you want.

Qualipreneur; is the hyphen connecting the world of Quality & Business.

If Singapore were to disappear today what would the world miss?

Life is Twist & Turn, you fell once you stop cycling on the QJ Bicycle.

My SOHO (Small Office. Home Office) has no door, But the imaginative door is always ajar to listen to fresh quality stories that seems boring at first but its starts to get interesting……fsy

All roads lead to FSYQualipreneur success….Yesterday I am Good, today I am @ my best, tomorrow I will be better…. fsy.

We block our effectiveness not because we have questions but because we think we have the answers.