Friday Sharing w/You

Friday, November 18

2016 FSY Week 47 - Be Kind

2016 FSY Week 47a

Hello Friday Friends & PengYiu,

Please join me in advocating:

Make Money & Love Safety

赚钱第一; 安全在我心! & 明天一定会更好!加油哦

Jana Wang, Cinta Keselamatan


Quick Quotable


Chance, Choice & Change
If you are near a mountain & you didn’t make the chance to reach the peak. At the end of the day, you will regret the choice you didn’t take and makes a change.
Chance, Choice, Change or just a peek not peak!!


Quick Question



Are we shedding scarce (H)Human (R)Resources or developing HR to (R)Resourceful (H)Human.


Before Sharing,

First things first,

Thank for reading,

I write for myself & for my grandchildren but if the story helps you, share it around. As always, thank you & (F)Friday (S)See (Y)You…… here again.


Today Sharing:

@60 Part: #3 – An inward state of mind

In my 60 years, I discovered that there are two distinct levels of understanding and learning.  There is the superficial aspect, Learning the method and practices by which you can get what you want by imposing your will on others – The ‘Make Money’ part.  And there is the deeper, spiritual understanding from nature and from our innermost self, the soul  – The ‘Love safety Part’

Being born in a Chinese family, I was already immersed in Buddhism, although I did get a chance to study Christianity and completed the 7-day adventure study of Christianity.

At 60, it is not about certificated to any institutions, mastering any specific skills,  nor is it something I can give to you. The power of Make Money & Love Safety (MMLS) is already within you. It is your inner strength and the natural state of your true self, where joy, clarity, courage, and compassion are an inseparable part of you.

Character is not made out of sunshine and roses. Like steel, it is forged in fire, between the hammer and the anvil.

Many people are so completely obsessed with the pursuit of false euphoria that they attempt to deny the existence of life’s difficulties. A positive attitude is important but it is only part of the story.

So often we are so concerned with what makes us feel good that we forget what makes us great – The (F)Failure, the (S)Struggle, the (Y)Younique Pain &  the (D)Doubt over these 60 years on my Unexpected Quality Journey.  

At times, people look at me, (F)Funny, (S)elfish, & (Y)Youniquely ruthless and completely amoral. (or I always told people -I don’t bother or even you die the world still go round) However, I contend that these do not necessarily have to be destructive attributes a person should have if you want to survival in this ruthless world.

I have read many books and most are from the modern American school of thought, and many deadmen philosophies and each attempt to teach me how to make myself a more effective manager, a better salesperson and generally a better and more dynamic individual. In most books, the authors prescribed a course of action that will lead to the desired result. Typically, it is a plan that has work for the author and maybe a few of his students. But it doesn’t necessarily work well for all of us. Two people can read the same cookbook and use the same recipe and even the same ingredients on how to cook a great fried rice, but the results will not be the same. One will finish with a great fried rice dish and the other will make a mess of it.

Most people do not seem to be aware that there is an inward state of mind that must be achieved in order for words and actions to be effective.

The experts who write these books are good at what they do because they have had the luck to achieve that state of intuitively or unconsciously.  You know how you can read the experts books & hear something a hundred times in a hundred different ways before it finally gets through to you.  The truths life lessons that many of us likely learned years ago, and have been reminded of ever since, but for whatever reason, haven’t fully grasped it because we forget to exercise the inward state of mind.


Thank for reading

感恩 : Ganen

With gratitude

Until We Meet Here Next Friday… Be Kind

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My FSY’s sharing is unscientifically and some are contributed by wife & children, friends, acquaintances. I write and share things that matter to me. I understand that everyone has their own opinions, views, & thoughts. There are no right or wrong answers. Nothing is true or untrue, most facts and data can be twisted to your favour.

To the authors, contributors and original sources, my thanks and where appropriate my apologies if I forget to quote your names.  If I took a page from your generous sharing and tweaked it into something else, something I hope will spread and the whole purpose is for sharing and sharing is caring.

With Gratitude