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Friday, December 23

2016 FSY Week 52 - Be Patient


2016 FSY Week 52a - Christmas

Hello Friday Friends, 朋友, & PengYiu,

Wishing Everyone
(Y) Yuletide & Christmas

Quick Quotable

Impatience kills relationships.


Quick Question

As the year is wrapping up did you accomplish all your professional goals in 2016?


Today Sharing:

If you have been following my weekly FSY posting: that is (F) Friday (S) Sharing w/ You.  In the past 51 weeks, I ended my sharing each week with one-word that follow by… “Until Next Friday, Be Patient


If you haven’t noticed it yet, you can refer all the 53 words (including next Friday word) at the end of the sharing.


The weekly hack to choose one word is, to sum up what we want to focus that week. Choose one word that describes the experience of your week’s activities that have an impact on and changes your habits every day in that week.


The possibilities are endless and there is no one way to practice. No matter how you choose to put it into practice, whether by planning a week-long or just a day, take advantage of this one-word method experience to make the most of your week.


You can choose your one word and asked how you want to tackle the question of, “How can I make more of my strength for this week?”


Today I stated in my sharing the word be ‘Patient’


As you are aware, with technologies advancing everything is (F)Fast, (S)Speed and (Y)You want it now. With on-demand services, you can get what you want in a matter of minutes. If you are searching for an answer to a subject that you don’t know, you need just to Google and instantly the answer appears in front of you. If you are driving and need a cup of coffee, you can easily get it at a drive-through café.  Uber arrives at your doorstep in a matter of minutes to take you anywhere you need to go. The list goes on and on.  When it comes to products, you are spoiled for choice and you demand it immediately.


Yes, Speed wins but impatience kills the relationship. Human is not products or Services.


So, this week, the last week of 2016, I’ve chosen the word, ‘Patient’. Today and the following days of the week. I am practicing more patience in my conversations. Patience with myself when a conversation doesn’t go the way I want it to. Patience with someone who brings an issue to me that seems unfounded. Patience with someone who gives me feedback to me something I don’t like to hear. Patience with (F)Family members, with (S)Strangers. And (Y)You, my friend.


How will you practice this word ‘Patient’ for the week?  Please share with me at


One Good example

If you are afraid of mountain trekking, patience might be a good example that you can use, is to let go of your anxiety of the (H) Horrible (A)And (T)Terrible (HAT) experience of mountain climbing that you had experienced.


Take off the old “HAT”. Allow yourself to be still, and remember that if you’re aligned with who you really are, all the pieces of the puzzle will fall into place at the right time. Differentiate between mountain climbing and trekking, change your old HAT to a new HAT (H)Hard work (A)Achieve (T)Tremendously. Spend some time in silence, and listen to the voice of your intuition, which is the voice of your true self. Sometimes you won’t be able to hear that voice, but be patient. Trust that you will receive the answers you seek in time. Finally, take the (F)First (S)Small step of (Y)Your walking up the staircase to your office or apartment instead of taking the lift.  The small milestones add to the joy of accomplishments.


“A journey of a thousand steps trekking a mountain begin with the (F)First (S)Step of (Y)Your” (tweaked the old original version of Lao Tzu.)


As we are all getting geared up for 2017. You can choose your own word or use the word listed. What’s Your One-Word per week for the New Year?


Next year maybe I will choose all words started with “Re” – Renew, Reenergize, Reinterpreting, Reframing, Restories, etc


The following words appeared each week…Until Next Week…

Week 1 Jan 01 Be Friendly
Week 2 Jan 08 Be Supercalifragilisticexpialidocious
Week 3 Jan 15 Be Youthful
Week 4 Jan 22 Be Great
Week 5 Jan 29 Be Resilient
Week 6 Feb 05 Be Zen
Week 7 Feb 12 Be Disciplined
Week 8 Feb 19 Be Caring
Week 9 Feb 26 Be ‘RAT’ (R) Resilient (A) Agile (T) Tenacious
Week 10 Mar 4 Be committed
Week 11 Mar 11 Be Curious
Week 12 Mar 18 Be Artistic
Week 13 Mar 25 Be Skeptical
Week 14 Apr 01 Be Awesome
Week 15 Apr 08 Be Braved
Week 16 Apr 15 Be Creative
Week 17 Apr 22 Be Determined
Week 18 Apr 29 Be Engaged
Week 19 May  6 Be Fearless
Week 20 May 13 Be Courageous
Week 21 May 20 Be Joyful
Week 22 May 27 Be Happy
Week 23 Jun 03 Be Fit
Week 24 Jun 10 Be Dreamily
Week 25 Jun 17 Be Fatherly
Week 26 Jun 24 Be Strong
Week 27 Jul 01 Be Resourceful
Week 28 Jul 08 Be Inspiring
Week 29 Jul 15 Be Uplifting
Week 30 Jul 22 Be Adventurous
Week 31 Jul 29 Be Responsible
Week 32 Aug  05 Be Accountable
Week 33 Aug 12 Be Hygienic
Week 34 Aug 19 Be-Gusto
Week 35 Aug 26 Be Grateful
Week 36 Sep 02 Be  Charismatic
Week 37 Sep 09 Be Serious
Week 38 Sep 16 Be Comfortable
Week 39 Sep 23 Be Purposeful
Week 40 Sep 30 Be Influencing
Week 41 Oct 07 Be Loved
Week 42 Oct 14 Be Humble
Week 43 Oct 21 Be Simple
Week 44 Oct 28 Be Intelligent
Week 45 Nov 04 Be Concise
Week 46 Nov 11 Be Restraint
Week 47 Nov 18 Be Kind
Week 48 Nov 25 Be Frolic
Week 49 Dec 02 Be ‘FSY’ (F) Friendly (S) Strong & (Y)Youthful
Week 50 Dec 09 Be Yourself
Week 51 Dec 16 Be Generativity
Week 52 Dec 23 Be Patient
Week 53 Dec 30 Be Calm



Thank for reading

I write for myself & for my grandchildren but if the story helps you, share it around. As always, thank you & (F)Friday (S)See (Y)You…… here again.


谢谢; Thanks; 

感恩:Ganen (Grateful)

With Gratitude


感恩 Today, Joyful Tomorrow… fsy


Please join me in advocating:


Make Money & Love Safety

赚钱第一; 安全在我心! & 明天一定会更好!加油哦

Jana Wang, Cinta Keselamatan


Until We Meet Here Next Friday… Be Patient


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My FSY’s sharing is unscientifically and some are contributed by wife & children, friends, acquaintances. I write and share things that matter to me. I understand that everyone have their own opinions, views, & thoughts. There are no right or wrong answers. Nothing is true or untrue, most facts and data can be twisted to your favour.

To the authors, contributors and original sources, my thanks and where appropriate my apologies if I forget to quote your names.  If I took a page from your generous sharing and tweaked it into something else, something I hope will spread and the whole purpose is for sharing and sharing is caring.